Subject: How Did You Live Your Dash?
Date: Wed, Sep 12 2001 00:00:09 -0400

One of the humor lists I'm on has decided to offer the rest of this week in silent prayer for those who lost their lives in this disaster. While I would also like to offer prayer, mine is not so silent...

In this time of tragedy, we're reminded that life is short, and any one of us could be called away from this life at any moment with no warning.

This was sent to us back in May by Chris Pizarro, who would have been at work in downtown Manhattan yesterday morning if she hadn't called in sick...


How Did You Live Your Dash?

I read of a man who stood to speak
At the funeral of a friend
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
From the beginning...to the end.

He noted that first came her date of birth
And spoke the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years. (1934 -1998)

For that dash represents all the time
That she spent alive on earth...
And now only those who loved her
Know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not, how much we own;
The cars...the house...the cash,
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard...
Are there things you'd like to change?
For you never know how much time is left,
That can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough
To consider what's true and real,
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger,
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives
Like we've never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect,
And more often wear a smile..
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.

So, when your eulogy's being read
With your life's actions to rehash...
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?